Happy birthday...to me!!

It was my 25th birthday on January 28. I spent it in Prague with my friend. Honestly, I feel old, but I really enjoyed my birthday trip.

I tried using grain for the first time. Afterwards, I animated the flame. That part was kind of hard, because I was trying to achieve the effect of the flame being blown out. I kinda failed. Any recommendations on how to animate the flame being blown out?