Misery loves company
Somewhat of a common thing that can even happen to the best of us. When suffering as a human it seems to give comfort by the knowledge that others are also unhappy. Beware of these kind of things when they seem to get into your life, because misery loves company.
Beware of the frenemies. Because real friends with real advice/help are hard to come by and are a dime a dozen. A 'true friend' will never let you down or enjoy your suffering.
One love,
The Visual Villain