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No matter how hard you try to block the fact out, all relationships are not meant to last. The ‘happily ever after is only limited to fairy tales, and not real life at least not always on the first go. Thousands of minute factors all work against and break it up, despite our best efforts to make it work.
The only way one can accept this truth is if they come out of their fairytale worlds and believe in Conscious Mating. And this is the best way to avoid major pain in the end. While some problems can be tackled through discussions and sittings, some others cannot. This is natural and not exclusive to your relationship. So it is in this pre-commitment phase that one must analyze the level of problems and try either to solve them or decide to part.
So, it is this time, when you are not yet in wedlock and free to easily go your own way, to make a non-judgmental and practical choice. It sounds difficult, and it probably is, but it will reduce a lot of unnecessary hassle later on. To identify what you and your partner want from this relationship and how much you have in common, now that the ideal romantic phase is long past.
Accordingly, make the choice and keep to it, to prevent all the good memories acquired, from being lost amongst all the bitter fights later on. So be practical and sort out matters now and be happy later knowing if this did not work out there will be someone else who will be right for you.
Pain Prevention
Always do the thinking before getting into it permanently. It might be painful to break up now when you are ‘going out,’ in that pre-committed state, but it will be even worse later. It will be extremely disastrous and painful once there are other parties like family and kids involved so the best deal is to think now. So make sure you sit back and analyze whether what you want out of a long-term relationship is what you are getting out of a current one.
This is very important in the long run because there is a high possibility that you might end up bitter and disappointed later with it if you don’t analyze what you want now. It is highly possible that
your ‘love’ now might not be the right love for you at all. That is why before you get into ugly fights, make a rational decision now.
When is the right time to be with some?
The most important decision that affects the happiness of a person is finding the right partner for life and that too at the right time. The level of perception of a person obviously influences his/her choice of partner. It is vital to take the proper step at the proper time and not hesitate while making such an important decision. One must keep in mind the fact that time is short.
The subsequent points listed help to find out for certain whether one is ready for a relationship or not.
1. You must have monetary security.
2. You must be perceptive enough to understand the significant crossroads that life may present and be wise, experienced, and confident enough to tackle them.
3. Your emotion and reason must be in agreement when you decide it is time for you to share your private space with someone. Research has shown that the maximum number of divorces occur due to the indifference of one or both partners towards one another. Being interested in your partner is vital for a perfect balance in the relationship.
4. The fact that you are ready to take on the complete responsibility of another person and that you are ready to rely on this same person for support is a pointer to the fact that you are ready for a relationship.
5. Your consciousness about the desire for a family and family planning policy regarding this basic urge shows that you are ready for a relationship.
6. The appropriate age for men is between 25-35 years. For women, the aptest age is in the range of 20-28 years.
7. There is also a physical need for being with someone. But if you have not felt the desire to be with anyone at all then there must be some emotional issue.
8. One of the most important facets of the decision in choosing a partner is the abundance of options that one has in the matter. You have to be aware of all the people you find
interesting. This awareness of your interests naturally makes it easy to avoid potential debacles.
Friends, family, neighbors, and the amazing sights and sounds of the great wide world full of possibilities await one if only one makes the effort to appreciate. But one only notices all the variety and beauty when one is in love. Only a soul mate who can share your experience makes everything worthwhile.
It is only the perfect partner who can get rid of the despondency of loneliness and lead you to a life of joy and happiness.
10 tips to know if you are ready for a relationships
1. The first thing you need to be is to be ready to have some fun with somebody. Nobody wants to be with a boring person, so be ready to enjoy a relationship.
2. Understand that you need to be in a different relationship than the past ones you had. Remember they failed; you don't want to repeat that. Don't stick with something because it was fun, if you just want a repetition you are not being open to newer things happening!
3. Make sure you keep your exes out of your mind and whatever you did together. Your new date is not going to be the same and that is both good and bad. Accept this quickly and get ready for something new!
4. Be patient and wait for the right person to drop in, remember you might want to spend the rest of your life with him or her. You just cannot make it happen instantly. Most people find that person when they least expect it.
5. Be a positive and upbeat person. Nobody wants to be with an intensely negative person. Positive vibes definitely attract. Be comfortable the way you are and you'll see things just get better!
6. If you suffer from the most common syndrome everybody has – thinking they don't look good enough then change that look! If a person has low self-esteem because of his looks and finds someone who actually likes that look, you don't want to go changing right away!!
7. Think practically. If your job is taking all your time then wait for the right time to get into a relationship. If you are just beginning a career then you are probably not ready for a relationship.
8. You will not be able to hide your bad habits for a long time. So scrutinize yourself properly, your significant other will point them out to you soon enough, and you don't want to get angry, do you?!
9. Try and understand what it was in the previous relationship that could not survive long term, from both sides. It's not about being right or wrong, you just need to be aware because the same things might come up again.
10. Remember that there is another person who will have an equal say for the relationship to actually work. The other person should be respected and treated nicely, don't doom your relationship by disrespecting the other person.